HIII im so sorry for the late response to this !! i haven’t been too well 😭💔 anyway !! to answer your questions, unfortunately im not making a discord server anytime soon as i don’t really have the time to moderate something on that scale and it may attract people who don’t like me … as for my otps, i love mellomatt, madatowa, kaebedo, laufer, dottochi, kokobina and some others !!! as for your aspd symptoms, i’m sorry you’re struggling so much i personally really struggle with the same things you mentioned and what’s helped me in the long run is surrounding myself with people who know that i am not always available, those who know i act in self interest and that it doesn’t reflect how i feel about them. i think with aspd sometimes you really have to try and force yourself to care if your relationships are at stake. it’s a lot of effort but people will appreciate you trying if they know you have aspd but still see you trying regardless. i think it’s hard because it’s difficult to get out of that mindset of everyone being out for themselves only, but i also try to remember how awful it is to be completely isolated, and i use that as motivation to maintain my relationships, even if i have to force myself to put in some more effort. i’m sorry to hear about your psychiatrist too, it sucks having to start again with a new one

hiii ^.^ i’ve used it for about 3 years now and back when i chose it it wasn’t a popular name at all !! i thought it suited me at the time and it was a name my main host took for hirself that i adopted collectively and it just stuck ever since then !! as for where exactly i got it from, i don’t recall !! it was before rentrypin or anything like that so i believe i must’ve just liked the word

HII ANON ^.^ first of all, thank you so much for the lovely message !! i definitely agree with you, rentrypin and everything related to it has a terrible reputation and using rentry is a much nicer experience when you’re away from all of that !! things have been very peaceful for me since i returned to focus on myself and my resources thankfully !! i remember the pre metadata days omg … it seems like so long ago now !! especially since i’ve been on rentrypin since 2023 LOL . i definitely think the community should always have stayed focused on enjoying rentry for what it is instead of obsessing over urls and being horrible to eachother 😭 i am thankful for people like you who also just want to enjoy things and be creative !! thank you again and merry early christmas to you as well !! <3

I LOVE YOU also yes i did see it it’s fire

of course it’s no problem !! i hope you end up finding a label that suits your experience !! have a great day/night too !! ^.^

HIII again !! so while they are how your brain processes info, people with DID function differently inherently due to being one person in multiple parts, meaning that different alters are going to act and feel and function very differently to the host or collective personality !! as such, im of the belief that alters can have different mbtis, socionics etc because different alters do process things differently !! ALSO yes, shi/hir pronouns are exclusive to intersex people for the reasons you described, since they’re a mix of she/her and he/him !! and intersex people have always been ostracised and treated badly for not fitting in with either of the sexes, despite sex actually being a spectrum. though, as intersex conditions are vastly under diagnosed, underrepresented and often flat out ignored or even ‘corrected’ at birth through surgery by doctors, im of the opinion that if you suspect you’re intersex and have suffered societally and personally because of it, you can use the intersex label to describe your experience even if you are undiagnosed with anything !! this means you can use shi/hir if this is something that you’re affected by!! however, if someone is bodily perisex, their alters cannot use shi/hir as they do not have the lived experience of being intersex !! although i cant stop anyone using those pronouns i do think it may be disrespectful if someone is not intersex bodily ^.^ since alters presenting themselves in any way internally has no impact on how you’re perceived in real life, i don’t believe alters can call themselves intersex or use those pronouns even if they present that way internally

HII thank you for the question, i don’t mind being asked at all !! my day is also going well and i hope yours is too !! <3 for me i would say it definitely changes a bit for me collectively when my host changes, i could definitely have an alter who’s a so6 regardless of what’s listed for me collectively !! when typing myself i had to take into consideration how my alters act when i mask, as that forms more of a solid persona for me ^.^ as for individual alters, they can type themselves and be vastly different to my typology collectively !! i do have a collective tritype written down among other things, and i would say in my experience some of my alters are definitely outside of it !! i think for me as someone with DID a lot of my typology may need to be taken with a grain of salt due to identity disturbances so a lot of it may be subject to change in the future !! i can never truly be 100% sure and so my collective typology is definitely heavily influenced by my current host and my perspective of myself as a whole when masking in day to day life !!

HII ANON thank you so much !!! ^.^ so to answer your questions, i became well known from posting consistently, being very active in rentrycords in the past to the point of being staff and befriending other well known figures in the community, as well as making my resource rentry back when there weren’t many around !! i’ve been on rentrypin since september 2023, and back then it was a lot easier to create a name for yourself and be the first person to attempt certain styles and aesthetics !! nowadays it’s definitely still possible, the community is full of creative people !! luckily for me, i was able to stay well known by myself without any connections to those i used to be friends with due to fallings out and just growing apart and such i think i function better at a distance due to my reputation and i don’t like to overshadow those around me if they’re also trying to become well known !! as for my aesthetic, i had a main host back then who decided most of my aesthetic and decor stuff, and since i became well known for my ‘brand’ essentially most of my alters decided not to stray too far from it !! also, my main host rarely ever changes and usually never fully switches out, so there’s always some form of influence from them at all times !! i have changed aesthetics briefly in the past, for example i did have a red and black towa aesthetic for a while, and then i changed to my current black and white columbina aesthetic as opposed to going back to my pink and black one ^.^ just for a change really !! as for finding the time to decorate Everything, it takes me a long time !! i’ve been decorating my simply plural and working on it steadily for months , and usually when i decide to make a rentry or something similar, i do it all in one sitting when i have a free day, since usually it only takes me about 2 hours !! simply plural stuff takes longer as im lacking information about a lot of my alters, but it gets done over time !! it’s fully decorated now because i hyperfocused on it for a while LOL anyways i hope all this makes sense !! thank you again for the kind message !!

scarameow !! but i love the dottolings too id take care of them i think ^.^

meow meow :3 i have a scarameow plushie i got for my birthday a few years ago !!

of course !!! and thank you ^.^ i’m trying my best too !!

HIII i love your decor too thank you so much !!! ^.^ if it helps you’re the only person with a cute furina theme added on my sp and i have 70+ people on there !! i saw your custom fronts and i hope you’ll be alright and heal from whatever drama is going on

thank you sm anon !! i have been using this method already to organise my folders on the root page but i may use it for my roles in the future !! ^.^

I LOVEE KYOUKA sure i’ll work on this !!

HII sure i’ll work on using filegarden more