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Anonymous November 14, 2025 at 8:17:00 PM

whats the difference between sidesystems, subsystems and layers?

Replied on: November 15, 2025 at 7:34:00 PM

sidesystems are systems adjacent to the main system. this is usually in cases of very complex trauma and there are amnesia barriers usually entirely preventing communication and memory between the two systems, though it’s still just one person with DID. subsystems can present in usually two ways: either an alter appears to have their own system, meaning that they have their own alters who can only front when the host of the subsystem is in front, OR a subsystem can be a group of alters who have very little communication with the rest of the system and are generally considered separately from the rest of the system. layers are, essentially, what they’re called: layers of alters. certain layers may have more access to information than others, and generally alters can’t communicate with alters on other layers. gatekeepers or internal helpers may be able to communicate across layers and have more control over which layer has access to certain information, but take that with a grain of salt! my experience is quite specific.

bea anon !! November 14, 2025 at 12:47:06 AM
(if from elsewhere) where did you find me from?: long time fan from old rentry pinterest !!

HII SAINT !! huge fan of you and your work !! im so so glad to see you back frown i've always been so inspired by your work !! would you ever consider doing commissions? unsure if this has been asked before !! blush

Replied on: November 15, 2025 at 7:28:34 PM

HIII that’s so cool that you’ve been a fan for so long !! thank you ^.^ i may open commissions in the future again if there’s enough interest !!

Anonymous November 13, 2025 at 5:19:41 PM

what made u switch ur general aesthetic to black and white? wld u ever go pink and black again?

Replied on: November 15, 2025 at 7:27:29 PM

hii it was mainly several host changes !! my main host has changed a few times since i used pink and black and i mainly only do it now for the sake of my image. black and white fits my current aesthetic more ^.^ before this i was actually using red and black too !!

Anonymous November 12, 2025 at 8:16:20 PM

oh my god why is it so difficult to find good queer servers... cry

Replied on: November 15, 2025 at 7:26:19 PM

im not sure tbh !! im not really in any

Anonymous November 12, 2025 at 3:38:22 AM

do you have any recommendations for Custom Fields entries for SP? I've been trying to get started with those but I just have zero ideas apart from the obvious!!! frown

Replied on: November 15, 2025 at 7:26:07 PM

YES here’s mine !! https://postimg.cc/gallery/3R88VKf

jpn anon November 12, 2025 at 2:35:31 AM

OMG OK i feel the same way. i always feel a little ostracized by other east asians bc they think my feelings are stupid. i know a lot of Japanese people in particular don’t mind that sort of thing, and that’s fine! but some of them tend to be mean to me ab my differing views frown i’m glad to see another east asian who shares my sentiment! i also personally view people using a shorthand of the name (like kazuha to kaz) in a similar way, because to me it feels like they’re trying to sidestep criticism. what are your thoughts on that?

Replied on: November 12, 2025 at 3:36:50 AM

i definitely agree with you !! your feelings aren’t ever stupid either smile i wholeheartedly agree about shortening names to avoid criticism too, ive always felt this way and i actually used to know someone who shortened kazuha to kaz for this very reason !! i always thought it was very strange at the time and i did call them out for it back then too

Anonymous November 12, 2025 at 12:19:28 AM

how do u feel ab non asian ppl using asian names? as far as i know (i am japanese), east asian languages aren’t necessarily closed — so if u have an issue, what is it specifically? blush

Replied on: November 12, 2025 at 12:25:06 AM

hiii as a korean person i do find it strange especially when it’s non asian people who don’t intend on integrating into an asian culture !! i find it really uncomfortable when people use my language and the names that originate from it personally when they haven’t experienced the racism and societal experiences that you get from being asian in a predominantly white community and also just from saying you’re asian online. being east asian is highly fetishised by certain people online too and it feels weird to me that someone who isn’t asian would want people online to assume they are ^^ i hope this makes sense !! also, a lot of names have important meanings that a lot of people tend to ignore when they try and use those names when they aren’t asian. it’s disrespectful to the cultures

tabris / solace November 11, 2025 at 4:43:06 AM
(if from elsewhere) where did you find me from?: ulzzang

HI SAINT DO U STILL HAVE THE CHARM U USED ON UR RESOUECE RENTRY or do u know where to find any... ITSSO CUTE OK BYEBYEBHAVE ABGOOD DAU

Replied on: November 12, 2025 at 12:25:38 AM

HIII HERE YOU GO https://i.postimg.cc/9MMtD1qX/IMG-5007.gif

anon November 11, 2025 at 12:57:27 AM

(same anon from the buckets ask) tysm </3 i literally didn't know what to do bucket wise because i legit don't know how to organize for the life of me. this is actually really helpful lol!! ty!!

Replied on: November 11, 2025 at 12:58:35 AM

no problem !!! <3

anon November 11, 2025 at 12:53:06 AM

what do your privacy buckets look like? right now i literally only have friends and partner and i do NOT know what to do </3

Replied on: November 11, 2025 at 12:56:14 AM

HII i just redid mine !! they look like this https://postimg.cc/gallery/tXfdCGR

Anonymous November 10, 2025 at 7:44:07 AM

what do you consider ‘too much inspo’ apart from outright copying? i SWEAR you talked about this on your old retrospring but it isn’t up anymore!

Replied on: November 11, 2025 at 12:55:23 AM

HII yeah i mentioned this wayyy back then !! too much inspo is probably to me copying an exact combo of colours, characters, using the same dividers and matching my template but changing a few symbols to avoid being accused of outright copying. basically any low effort attempts at changing the bare minimum of my work ^.^ i’m usually okay with most inspo though !!!

Anonymous November 6, 2025 at 2:32:53 PM

is postimg blocked for anyone else🥹🥹🥹🥹 for some reason a lot of img hosts are blocked for me besides i think catbox and filegarden

Replied on: November 6, 2025 at 2:36:01 PM

hii anon it’s working for me rn so im not sure !! i think some countries block different image hosting sites frown

Anonymous November 6, 2025 at 1:33:40 PM

Отсоси хуй rose

Replied on: November 6, 2025 at 1:42:12 PM

you want me

AMLO November 6, 2025 at 3:02:37 AM

hi Saint ! wave I come with a DID related question : have you ever had any alters leave a weird sensation after they front ? not like in an amnesiac way , but more like a sensation that makes you go " what . . . ? " . eek recently , one of our alters , Roland , co - fronted with me , and we were feeling frail and woozy for a while after we left front ( and this already happened once before , with Slasher trying to front and making me feel a huge sense of dread ) , so I was wondering if that is something that has ever happened to you in any way !

Replied on: November 7, 2025 at 12:43:24 PM

HII i would say this has definitely happened to me in some ways !! sometimes after a switch i can still feel the remnants of whatever the other alter was feeling and if it was particularly difficult for that alter then it will still have an effect on me as well

anon! November 5, 2025 at 6:45:33 PM

do you accept frqs from anyone on sp? :O is there any specific reason a request may be ignored or someone wld be unadded? I’ve always been curious about people who share their sp so openly coz im not 1 of those people!

Replied on: November 5, 2025 at 6:54:48 PM

hiii yes i do !! i don’t usually ignore requests from anyone as my public privacy buckets don’t show any sensitive information ^.^ i may unadd people if they make me uncomfortable in any way though. i had to do this just now because someone copied my entire identity and i wasn’t aware until someone else told me, but other than that i usually keep people added if they added me for inspo !!

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